"Why do you think the way you view a friend differs from the way you view a potential lover?"
"Why do you think it's a waste of time if you spend it with someone just for the company, who may or may not be Mr Right?"
"Maybe some relationships just have to grow; you don't need to rush it, just see what happens. Things develop at their own pace"
Not sure whether this lady is a psychic as well as a shrink... 
